Teresa of Avila, Majestic is Your Name
“Be happy when you are blamed and accused wrongly, for then you have 
the chance to see all the bitter, hostile or self-pitying responses that
 your sinful soul wants to spew out – as if these puny things could in 
any way defend you! Watch and see if any of these poisons come out of 
you when your spirit is pricked by an accusation. Only then can you see 
yourself as you are, and confess thy sin that is within you and forsake 
yourself again into the Lord’s care.”